Personal Advice To Ladies – Nigeria

Ladies, personal advice from what I’ve learned and understood. (This is mainly applicable to Nigerian’s)

Men cheat and women cheat also. Comparing who cheats more is just a waste of time. Both parties cheat but not EVERY man or woman cheats.

I’ve seen men who cheat and I’ve seen women who equally cheats. But the question now is this, in marriage, who suffers more after cheating?

When a man cheats, he can ask for forgiveness and plead that he is sorry, even the elders of your village won’t blame him for cheating but will blame him for getting caught. I’ve seen it happen.

When a woman cheats, the man will file for a divorce immediately. And the elders will agree with him. I’ve seen this happen too.

If your husband cheats and you make his life miserable, he is going to divorce you and bring in the woman he cheated with.

You will be chased out of your marriage, you will be laughed and mocked, whereas you are not at fault but that’s the world we live in.

In Nigerian culture, men are hardly blamed when it comes to cheating. You might even be shocked that your own father has once cheated on your mum, but your mum kept mute just so peace will rain, all because she doesn’t want you to be broken.

This is the reason women are stronger than men, because they can endure what a man can NEVER endure.

The only way to protect your family or your husband from all these is through prayers and understanding. If you lack understanding in marriage, your husband will cheat on you, except he is a man with strong WILL and with the FEAR OF THE LORD. (That someone goes to church doesn’t mean he or she has the fear of God)

This message is not to promote adultery but to help set your mind straight on how this culture is set.

A man who indulges in such acts needs to be prayed over and delivered from such spirit of marine. And such man shouldn’t be considered as a man but we live in a world where theres forgiveness.

A man who cheats has broken his family already, he has opened doors to the demonic realms and his family will never be fixed until he confesses and repent completely.

Ladies, be brave and stand firm for your family. PRAYER AND UNDERSTANDING IS THE KEY TO EVERYTHING.

by Prophet C. Emmanuel Okeke